Coming out later in life is more common than people realize. Many adults spend years, sometimes even decades, suppressing or questioning their sexual orientation or gender identity before finally allowing themselves to explore and embody who they truly are.

There is no “right” timeline for coming out. For many, later-in-life coming out happens after major life transitions: divorce, kids growing up, leaving a religious community, or finally feeling safe enough to ask questions that were once too scary to touch. It can be a long process of first coming out to yourself, then deciding if, when, and how to share this with others in your life.

Asexuality is often described as experiencing a lack of or limited sexual attraction to others. For some people, this looks like having little or no desire to engage in sex. For others, sex may still be enjoyable or meaningful, just not because of sexual attraction. Like all orientations, asexuality is about internal experience, not behavior. Many ace people have sex, and many don’t; what makes someone asexual is that they identify as such.

In recent years, there has been growing recognition of the profound impact hormone replacement therapy (HRT) can have on the psychological well-being of transgender and non-binary (trans/NB+)  folx. While the physical changes brought about by HRT are often highlighted, the emotional and mental health benefits are equally significant and deserving of attention. HRT has a high potential to contribute to a more fulfilling and authentic life for many trans/NB+ people.

For many LGBTQ+ individuals, the holidays can be a time of mixed emotions. The idea of returning home to family is a universal one, but for those in the LGBTQ+ community, it sometimes comes with the heavy weight of potential rejection, fear, and anxiety. While some might find comfort and solace in being with their loved ones, for others, the journey home is riddled with emotional challenges. This post is an exploration of the complexities of being LGBTQ+ and navigating the experience of returning home to a family that might not understand or accept your identity.

The decision to go home can be difficult. You might feel the pull of tradition and nostalgia, the desire to reconnect with your roots, or the longing for family warmth, but it’s often accompanied by deep dread. The question of whether to come out, whether to be yourself, or whether to hide part of who you are can occupy your mental space. For many, these questions come with the pain of not being able to live authentically in a space where love and acceptance should be unconditional.